Tuesday, December 31, 2013

Emmanuel - part 2

This time of year is crazy, isn't it? The moments of overwhelming stress squeezed in next to moments of exquisite beauty. 

If there is one thing I'm learning right now, one takeaway from this season, it would be an intense appreciation that Jesus came to be our Emmanuel - God with us.

God with us - in the beautiful moments
God with us - in the pain
God with us - when it is all too much
God with us 
when my heart is bursting 
or breaking
God with us. 

Something about this simple truth helps. It helps me take each moment as it comes. Makes me thankful in the moment when that song comes on the radio and I'm singing along at the top of my lungs. Gives me peace in the moments of pain. Helps me not drag one moment into the next, or one emotion into every moment. 

Now I'm feeling happy - okay then soul - be happy! Thank you God for this joy, thank you that you are with me in my joy thank you for music and twinkle lights and kids laughing together. 

Next moment I'm breaking - okay then, I will not hide, I won't wallow I refuse to be ashamed of my grief. I will simply be in this moment and God with me in it. Thank you Jesus that you are no stranger to pain and heartbreak. 

God with us when the angels sang,
God with us when there was no room at the inn.
God with me in the laughter.
God with me in the tears.
In the stress.
In the overwhelmation.
In the delight.
In the disappointment.
In the despair.
In my mess.

For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but one who in every respect has been tempted as we are, yet without sin. (Hebrews 4:15 ESV)

Wednesday, December 18, 2013

Read/Watch/Listen 2013

Picture books we're enjoying today: A Sound Like Someone Trying Not to Make a Sound by John Irving (really love the way this written) Monster Day at Work by Sarah Dyer (TOTALLY love this charming, understated piece!! Really inventive, similar to the firstMommy is planning menus & grocery shopping lists. Eli is looking at some of his favorite books. Love this sweet boy!Eli's favorite books from the Library :)I said "do you want me to read another book?" He said "No. All of them" ha!

I was thinking about some of the books, movies (and TV), and music I've enjoyed this year and wanted to blog this. These lists are always so fun to look back on! Also I'm trying to keep a running list of what I've read/want to read so do let me know if you have any suggestions!

Last winter I was reading The Hunger Games Trilogy. I read them to see if they were appropriate for my 5th grader and got completely hooked! Apparently there is still a small part of me that is a giggly teenage girl. The first book was my favorite - the next two got progressively worse and yet I could not put them down!! 

I've started reading again... and it's like I've come alive again. I've got all kinds of books in my reading pile - Kate Morton "The Distant Hours" is shaping up to be my favorite fiction book I've read in awhile. "The Hours" is very interesting - it was
This spring I attempted Virginia Woolf's "Mrs Dalloway" and by attempted I do mean I didn't get all the way through it. I never thought reading a novel could be so difficult! I enjoyed the challenge but it moved so slowly it was like the story moved at half-time. I also attempted reading "The Hours" but didn't get all the way through it. I loved the movie.  Another book-turned movie I enjoyed: "The Perks of Being a Wallflower"


I really enjoyed Kate Morton's novel "The Distant Hours" I had attempted another one of her novels and couldn't really get into it. This one I enjoyed quite thoroughly.


This summer I read "Gift from the Sea" by Anne Morrow Lindburgh I highly recommend you bring this along the next time you go to the beach! Or really anytime you want some light yet thoughtful reading on the subject of life and simplicity. I really need to but this one.

On the road Edited w #pictapgo_app

This year I did two Bible studies by Kelly Minter -  I highly recommend them both: Ruth & No Other Gods were both really good. The thing I love best about them is I felt that there was a lot of room for the Holy Spirit in these studies. I love how these studies prompted me to dig deeper and ask God hard questions about myself and what I believe about Him. My favorite part in these studies is honestly  what I wrote in the margins, and sitting at our last meeting, listening to how these studies impacted my ladies made me deeply appreciate this semester's small group.

I also co-led a One Thousand Gifts small group study. The DVDs were great though I thought the study guide was pretty much useless. I enjoyed using the Devotional edition of the book the most. It's very easy to read and digest, since it's broken into smaller pieces. 

Currently I'm reading "a million little ways" and am loving  it!  Download it now.

Movies - 

I saw Hunger Games: Catching Fire in theaters. Loved it - so intense!! I was glad I'd read the book first.

I took my bigs to see the new Percy Jackson movie. My kids are big fans of Rick Riordan's novels - so they were thrilled. I'm glad my littles didn't see it though since some of the scenes were pretty scar, but my bigs really enjoyed it. 

Despicable Me 2 - we saw this as a family and enjoyed it so much! So cute and funny. My littles said it was the best movie ever. But then don't they say that about every movie?

The Croods - I think Daniel & I might have enjoyed this even more than the kids. It's hilarious. We were laughing the whole way through this. There was one part that was a little extra scary/sad and I nearly cried but it's about equal to Toy Story (didn't you cry at Toy Story 3? I totally did!)

Oblivion  - really enjoyed this movie. Possibly one of the best movies I saw this year. Hmmmm, I think I want to watch it again soon.

Host - was a little bit teenage angsty but I enjoyed it. 

Safe Haven - okay so I didn't love the ending and it's totally predictable but predictably enjoyable! 

The new Star Trek movie "into darkness" - as someone who grew up on this franchise I geek out just a little bit when these movies come out. Loved this one.

Sherlock - the acting is perfect, it's a modernization of the Sherlock Holmes story. Loved every bit of it, especially season one.

Elementary - and Americanized Modernization of the Sherlock story that the Hubs and I have enjoyed watching this year. It's almost nothing like the books but still a really good show.

Downton Abbey - last year I watched bits and pieces of season three but season four has set me into full-on Downton Abbey fan-status. I watched the rest of season two earlier this week. I think it's much easier to watch it as a season all at once than week by week. 

Call the Midwife - so I cry at almost every episode. I love the cast so much! The second season is maybe not quite as good as the first but I loved them. I think it's even better than Downton Abbey. I've seen that there is a book that this television series is based on but I'm afraid to read it. Thumbing through it I could tell that there was some plot consolidation and I'm not sure if I could take it.

The Taste - it's like The Voice for cooking. Love watching it with the Hubs. Just finished watching season 1 on Hulu - we may watch season 2 since it's just started up again. 

This year I finally discovered Meredith Andrews - I especially love this version of her radio hit "Not for a Moment". I am also in love with her song "Strong God" and her Christmas song on the radio with Big Daddy Weave "Ring the Bells"

This year I also discovered Audrey Assad and I'm so loving her music! "Good to Me" was my anthem over the fall - I was playing it constantly.

I've been blogging some of my favorite worship songs one of my favorites is by All Sons & Daughters - I really like their music and especially Great Are You Lord

I also discovered the wonderful thing that is YouTube playlists. I've created a bunch. I also started using Spotify this year.

So that is pretty much my year in movies, music & books. I'd just love to hear about yours!! Have any faovrite books/movies/TV shows to recommend?

Monday, December 16, 2013

This one is for me

This blog post is not the one I had in mind when I poured my coffee this morning but today is getting hectic and a serious blog post looks like it's not going to happen today (however the menu did get written and grocery shopping is done so I'm going to call this day a win).  This blog post is mostly for me - but I thought maybe you'd find it helpful too so I'm publishing it here instead of just saving these in a note to Evernote or something like that. Remember in this blog post when I gushed about the book I'm reading? I finally went over to the (in)courage bloom book club site and found the a million little ways book club with videos from Emily Freeman. I wanted to have all the links to the videos in one place: So this is it.

Meet Emily Freeman
Chapter 1
Chapter 2
Chapter 3
Chapters 4 & 5
Chapters 6 & 7
Chapter 8
Chapter 9
Chapter 10
Chapter 11
Chapter 12
Postscript - The Bonus Footage

ALSO - on Emily's blog today I noticed she had a fantastic new post up with some book recommendations which is great because I am in desperate need of some good books to read in 2014!

P.S. you can get a companion book for free here

Wednesday, December 11, 2013

Christmas Confession

I can't sleep. I have no idea why. I have been laying in bed asking myself why am I still awake?! for at least the last five minutes. No coffee this afternoon, only decaf tea around 2. Cocoa can't keep somebody up, right? Is it the sound of the dryer? I have been mulling over my Christmas list and daydreaming about this one sweet project I'm just dying to start but there's nothing I can do about it right now. So here I sit in my cold dark living room with the quilt my mama made for me wrapped around my shoulders, at the computer doing what people like me do. Writing.

I have had this blog post simmering on the back of the stove of my brain for a couple of days now - might as well let it out now.

The 2007 Christmas Tree

Here is my Christmas confession: I haven't decorated for Christmas. Not one single thing is up. No tree, no wreath, no candles, twinkly lights or bows. Nothing. I have a wreath laid out in the garage I've been meaning to hang since the day after Thanksgiving but I can't find any of my wreath hangers and don't want to waste money on another. I have our sweet little Christmas tree that we have had for all of the last twelve Christmases that Daniel & I have been married but it's still tucked in it's box under Josiah's bed. It seems like most of my friends on Instagram have posted their "we're at the Christmas tree farm" shot or their "look at our beautiful tree" shot - but not me. I haven't done a thing.

Beth's Christmas Portrait 2004
a photo I took of Beth Christmas 2004
I posted the other day about how Christmas can be a difficult time of year for me. I get overwhelmed, I compare myself with other people, or assume that because someone's home looks like such and such on their blog that it looks like that all of the time, even though I know that's not true. I compare what I think I can't do with what I feel I ought to do and get totally lost. I get overwhelmed with shame because I'm barely keeping up with the day to day - throw something special on top of that and I'm really struggling.

I struggle with Christmas decorations. well, honestly I struggle with the whole home decor thing as a whole but Christmas decor especially. During a season that is always financially stressful it seems like a crazy added strain to our already stretched to the max budget to "waste" money on ribbon and lights and extra electricity.

But I also recognize the importance of decorating your home and the way it reflects a woman's heart. I remember the Christmas I realized my mom was struggling with my brother's death more than I had thought when the area in her kitchen that used to be filled with Christmas tins and festive decorations was completely empty. It sunk in then that her heart was still broken and empty - just like her kitchen walls.

My mom & me Christmas 2000
my mom and me on my last Christmas morning before I married making our family's traditional orange rolls
Daniel took the picture - obviously - look at my cheesy grin! 
It reminded me of one of my worst seasons of depression when in one afternoon I took down all the pictures and packed up all my pretty things. That was a really low point and I promised myself that no matter how bad I feel I would never do something like that again and I never have taken things down but lately I haven't put a lot of effort into putting things up either.

We moved into our home in July and the pictures I've unpacked are leaning against the mantle, the rest are still in boxes. Partly because I've been busy with stuff like dishes and laundry and homework and partly because I have a hard time making up my mind and an even harder time hanging things straitly and evenly but mostly because I just haven't had the emotional energy.

That is where I land when I look at my lack of Christmas decorations and I don't like what I see. I don't like the way I have been walking through life lately with this big not enough sign taped to my chest. Not enough time, not enough money, not enough energy. I think we all do this to some degree or another. Not enough space to show hospitality. Not enough wisdom to lead a small group. Not enough strength to carry that burden. Not enough fancy words to offer encouragement. Maybe I only have a little and maybe you do too but we have enough. 

I've been praying lately that God would take away that spirit of lack (not enough) and replace it with a grateful generous spirit that knows I have enough plus enough to share. It's a process - lately that process has mostly been me seeing how badly I need God to move because I am a mess. But then you already knew that.

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On the topic of homemaking and decorations I was totally inspired by The Nester's latest Christmas decor blog posts. You can see her current home but also look at her pictures for a recent magazine shoot. I love "the Nester" not just because she is Emily Freeman's sister but because, like Emily, she has such a humble transparent attitude about her. The Nesting Place isn't a blog about "look at how perfect my house is and how expensive my latest decor is" but it's a humble yet beautiful place about how she is just like me, not a lot of money but a lot of love for her family and her home and she is honoring God with money and home.

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These are her Christmas tree decorations - look! finger-knit garland and paper snowflakes!! 

Tuesday, December 10, 2013

Homemade Tomato Soup

I have been on both sides of the food bank - the giving side and also the receiving side and I'll tell you what, some of those boxes have got some crazy stuff in them but when it's all that is in your pantry it's what you learn to use.  This recipe came out of a food bank box. I had no idea what to do with canned carrots this recipe was the answer and has become one of my staples. You can't taste the white beans but they fortify the soup. The carrots and corn give the soup just the right amount of sweetness. If you want a smoother texture to the soup omit the corn but definitely try it once first. Also try this with black beans instead of white. I love black beans and corn together and while it makes a less traditional tomato soup I really love it. Bush brand seasoned black beans are my favorite and are, in my opinion, totally worth the few extra cents. You can make this from fresh ingredients or canned, I've tried it both ways and I haven't found the taste to be significantly different.

this is what you'll need
One box of chicken broth
1 can of carrots
1 can corn
1 can white beans - I prefer to use cannellini beans
2 big cans of tomato - I prefer peeled crushed tomatoes. Skins in soup are not fun.
optional: some onion or shallot & butter

Start with a nice big soup pot and set it on high/ med-high heat. When I made this soup I started it with 2Tablespoons of butter and 1 large diced shallot. You could also use some sweet onion, about a quarter of a large sweet onion would be good and you could just as easily use olive oil instead of butter if you'd like.  Once your onions/shallots are translucent reduce the heat to medium. Add half of the chicken broth. Drain the beans and add them. Return to simmer, drain the canned carrots & corn and add them. Add the cans of tomato and the rest of the chicken broth. Bring to a boil. Buzz it in batches in a blender or use an immersion blender to blend your soup (one of my favorite kitchen tools!!). If you blend it in your blender you'll more than likely need to put it back into your stock pot to re-heat a bit. I like to serve my tomato soup with grilled cheese sandwiches or quesadillas. You can also add prepared (aka leftover) orzo, rice or quinoa to the soup to add a little texture & substance.

Monday, December 9, 2013

It's that time of year again

I just want to preface this post by saying that I struggle a lot with my depression around the holidays. It is by far one of my most difficult times of year. So if you have you are all "deck the halls!" and jingle bells... maybe you want to skip this post. 

Are you still with me? Okay. 

Christmas is definitely not the "most wonderful time of the year" for a lot of us. This is the time of year when we miss those who are no longer with us, we ache for broken relationships and feel acutely the strain of others. It's an overwhelming time of year for introverts (and procrastinators) like me and I quickly get to the point when I'm asking the Hubs "are you sure we can't just skip the whole thing?" 

I have just a couple encouraging words - for me as much as for anybody else. 

Remember I am not alone. This time of year is hard for a lot of us. It's hard for me to see the other people who are struggling because we are usually either a) avoiding everyone and everything as much as possible or b) pretending that we are fine. But really, chances are, that girl in the check out behind me is wondering how she is going to get through another holiday season and that guy who sat behind me at church is counting the days until it's over and we can all get back to business as usual. 
Someone has just moved to a new town. Someone is trying to get through their first Christmas since a big loss. Someone is wondering how in the world they are going to pay for anything special this year when they can barely pay the bills. Someone is stuck away from home. Someone has lost their home. This time of year it is hard not to get sucked in and stuck there in those difficult emotional/mental places, but this year I am trying to remember that despite how I feel I am not alone with this struggle.

Stop trying to compete. I have this inner ideal self that I often judge against my current mess. Or I compare the way my family celebrates the holidays with how I remember them as a child, or how I see other people celebrating. This year I am going to stop it, or at least try to catch myself when I get trapped in competition. I am not going to let the fear of imperfect or less-than keep me from doing anything at all.

Pick one thing. So maybe I won't get to everything on my list - what is one thing I can do? Okay - I'm going to do that. Maybe it's one tradition I want to start or maintain, or one thing I've been meaning to do for awhile but never seem to get to. Maybe it's one thing today, or one thing this week, or one this this season. Pick one thing. This year I'm going to try to get together with some of my best friends: that is my one thing. 

It's not all about me. That's the biggie for me. At some point I've got to get over myself, pick myself up, dust myself off out in my big girl panties and do what will make someone else happy. It's easy, really deceptively easy, for Christmas to become an entirely selfish time of year. I want to fix that awesome breakfast (for the satisfaction it gives me to pull off that holiday recipe) I want to give that perfect gift (so that friend will like my gift best), I want to decorate just so (because those pictures will look so awesome on Facebook) but if I can get over myself and remember it's not all about me - I've taken a big step away from the gloom that shrouds this season. From filling a shoebox to go far away, to sponsoring a child at your local school, from buying a goat for a child around the world to buying a mocha for a friend who could use some cheering up. Volunteering time, donating to the local food bank. Just stopping to look my kids in the eye, wrap my arms around them and treasure them and get unstuck on myself.

Tuesday, December 3, 2013


Last night was one of the worst nights we've had in a really really long time. Eli woke up at 3am sick - as in projectile vomit sick. He has done this randomly for a week now but this was the first time we didn't make it in time.

So here we are, Daniel is stripping the bed, I am wiping down the bathroom cupboards and floor, with a crying toddler but we are both disgusting and I'm just trying to do one thing at a time to hopefully get back to sleep as soon as possible. 

In this moment I have this one, beautiful thought - Emmanuel: God with us. He is with me. Not above me, unable to sympathize with the gross parts of my life that I don't want to talk about. Not lording it over me like some prince in a palace far away. With me. In my mess. Literal and figurative, mental, emotional, spiritual - he's seen it all and he dives right into it with me.

Eli didn't settle back down to sleep last night. I spent hour after hour pacing the floor, laying next to him on the floor by his crib hoping to get a few minutes of sleep before it's time to get up with the bigs to get ready for school. It was miserable. I was miserable. I made those around me miserable too. I just about completely lost my voice. Watched as Josiah slumped onto the bus this morning and my heart broke. 

I settled onto the couch for a quick nap after the bus left and before Eli got up, crying out for forgiveness - my mess suddenly felt a lot worse than Eli's. 

Emmanuel - God with us. In my mess. In my stink. In my disgustingness. He is here, right here. Closer than my breath. Amazing.

Monday, December 2, 2013

Do the thing that scares you

A couple weeks ago this was the scene I found myself in. 

I have to say, for me - it doesn't get much better than this. These dear, beautiful women and our cameras and we learned and played for two hours.  

I had been rolling the idea around in my mind for awhile now, the idea of some kind of in-person, hands-on class but honestly I didn't know when or where or how until a couple different friends at different times within a few weeks of each other said "you have just got to help me learn how to use this expensive camera my husband bought for me." A tentative Facebook post emerged a month or two later and then I took that one brave step and opened registration for an in-person photography class.

Driving to that first class, if I'm being one hundred percent honest, I was a mess. I felt like a fraud, feared rejection by other women, afraid I'd disappoint my friends. 

And then there we were. In the middle of this beautiful moment. 

Driving away from this first class I felt FULL. Full of life, energy, joy, clarity. I felt beautiful in the best way, strong, brave and like all was right in my world. It hasn't been all smooth sailing since that moment and I'm sure I've made some mistakes along the way and probably will make more but that's okay because I'm doing what I was made to do.

I knew I had to write here about it. I had to tell you - just go do it! That idea - take a step! That thought - move forward! That plan - start to put it into motion! just do something about it now!

Fast forward a week or two later. I finally have a copy of Emily Freeman's "a million little ways" in my hands and suddenly realize what all they hype was about. 

I hate hype. If a book is the best book ever I really don't care to read it. The only reason why I read One Thousand Gifts (by Ann Voskamp) was because it was at the Library (if you haven't read this yet, you live under a rock!! If you didn't love it, try the devotional. It's a little easier to read). I read Grace for the Good Girl (also by EPF)  finally, because it was the book my friend and I chose for our first ever small group together. 

I have to say that all the gushing about a million little ways doesn't even do it justice. I read Jessi at Naptime Diaries write that this was on her short list of books every Christian simply has to read, right below the Bible, and that cynched it for me. I knew about two pages into it that Jessi was 100% right. 

Here again in this book is this call - do what you were made to do! Be who God made you to be!

So I'm adding my one little voice to this choir of saints - do the thing God is nudging you to do. Take that one little step. 

Now I can just hear that little voice in the back of your head saying but now isn't a great time of year to be starting something. Okay, okay maybe there is some truth to that, but could you start a notebook in Evernote or a secret pin board on Pinterest with random bits of notes? Could you scribble out some ideas in a little fifty cent notebook? Could you finally give yourself permission to have those big conversations and to say out loud what you've been day dreaming and scribbling in journals about for months and years? 

Here is what I want to say most to you right now: it's okay not to know how this all ends up. You don't need to have an end game. You just need to know the first step.

Did you know Beth Moore's first class was teaching dance aerobics?! Don't you think that prepared her for the role God would one day lead her to? Don't you think those weeks of Sunday school teaching and Bible study leading paved a way for God to do something bigger and brighter through her life? You never know where that first step will lead - and that's okay. Just take that first step. 

If you're anything like me you have at least one thing, way back there, or maybe two or three, just waiting to get out. Right now, if nothing else, at least say yes to those things, instead of a perpetual no or maybe one day when... Just say yes to whatever next step God might have for you. Trust that he'll open the doors that need to open and shut the ones that need to shut. The next step might seem small, take it. The next step might feel big and scary, go for it! It's worth it. Come alive.

Tuesday, November 26, 2013

Photos from last week


We are back to just five and I miss our two extras.
We talk about Saturday and my kids say "that was the day Mommy cried"

Today was better, my soul at rest, surrendered.
I'm thankful that these littles were able to go back to their daddy
and I cuddle and snuggle my own littles in between the moments crazy.

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Wednesday, November 20, 2013

A beautiful whirlwind

Today I brought home two children.

A three year old and a six week old.

A friendly play date to visit with a friend who has had a few rough weeks turned into watching her kids for a few hours turned into watching them for a few days. It's been a whirlwind. This is for sure. 

My friend is suffering from the worst post partum depression I have ever heard of - her bravery in this moment is beautiful, her husband's care for her is breathtaking. 

In this moment, over the exhaustion of caring for now seven children and heartbreak for my friend, there is this gratitude. This feeling like everything in the last year has led me to this moment - this being at the perfectly right place at just the right time. Watching my husband playfully demand to hold the baby. Feeling his strength, just because he is home. Working as a team - on the same page, working together.

So I'm a little bit terrified of the sleepless night ahead of me. I'm facing all of those irrational fears that come along with having a new baby in the house. I'm overwhelmed with this whole bottle-feeding thing - so if you think of me, pray for me. I'm going to need it!

Now I get to live my advice. Today I had to let another friend into my mess - as I reached out for some help today. I realize I'm seriously going to have to practice what I preach. Ask for help. Be real. LIVE community, not just speak it. 

Tonight as I was feeding the baby and setting my alarm for a middle of the night bottle I prayed that this would be a short dark blip in a long beautiful story. I am so glad to be even just a little part of it. 

Monday, November 18, 2013

Recipe: White Chicken Chili

white chicken chili

Now and then I daydream about being a food blogger. I'd fill my food blog with amazing recipes made from simple ingredients. Those are some of my favorite blogs to browse, with my "pin it" button at the ready so I can pin it to my "maybe one day I'll try this, but probably not" board otherwise known as "beautiful food"

The reality, however is that I'm not that much of a cook, I randomly throw things together that sometimes turn out great and occasionally are barely edible. And with this blog not terribly high on my list of priorities at the moment and the amount of time it takes to develop a recipe, photograph it and blog it - posting recipes is probably not something I'll be able to do regularly for awhile. But a couple of my Facebook friends asked for the recipe - so instead of posting a recipe-adjacent status update I thought I'd do a proper recipe blog post with a proper recipe.

Today it is actually pretty hot here in the Augusta area, nearly 80 degrees. So as I'm making this chili wearing a tank top, with my hair pulled up off my neck and my fan on high I'm kind of laughing at myself for choosing today to make this.


I'm making this particular batch for a friend of mine. This dish carries well, reheats great, simmers on the stove well (and could possibly be converted to a crock pot recipe) or whips up in a jiffy. I like to add leftovers to quesadillas or I'll wrap it up in a tortilla as a burrito.

This recipe is basically copied from the back of the white chicken chili seasoning packet plus black beans and corn. I know black beans are not typically included in a white chili recipe, however I think black beans and corn are just the perfect pair and I try to throw them into whatever I can.

I like to use Cannellini beans - they are white kidney beans and just a few cents more expensive than other white beans like great northern beans. I like using them a lot. I also like using frozen corn instead of canned - I think it tastes fresher. Some other things you could throw into this: queso cheese, canned tomatoes, corn & bean salsa.

This is what you'll need for this recipe:
McCormick white chicken chili seasoning mix
A can of white beans
A can of black beans
a bag of frozen corn

Chicken broth (about 12ozs)
Shredded cheese
Sour cream
Also - you'll need a little oil for your pan

Step 1: trim chicken breasts & dice into approximately 1 inch cubes
Step 2: heat large pot on stove over high heat, drizzle a little oil in the bottom of the pain (about 1Tb)
Step 3: cook chicken in oil until they are no longer pink.
Step 4: add frozen corn & chicken broth bring to simmer.
I usually prepare my rice to the side - so that the kids can have a lot of rice with a little chili and the hubs can have a lot of chili with a little rice. However, you can also add the rice at this point. Add 1 cup of rice & 2 cups water. Once you've added the beans and brought to a simmer, reduce the heat and cover. Simmer for about 20 minutes or until the rice is cooked through.
Step 5: Add the white beans & seasoning packet
Step 6: Drain, rinse and add the black beans
Be sure to rinse them well or your chili will be quite black!
Let it simmer, stirring now and then until it's good and hot and then serve with shredded cheese and if you like, sour cream.


The ingredients pictured above cost right at about $15 (minus a little change) you could reduce the expense of this meal by using a whole chicken (or none at all), use water instead of chicken broth and not add cheese.

worship song of the week

I had a whole different post ready for this morning... but there is this song we have been singing at church recently that I just love. I finally recorded a little bit of it on my cell phone so I could look it up when I got home. This is that song. It's from All Sons and Daughters and it's called "Great Are You Lord" and my favorite line is "it's your breath in our lungs so we pour out praise to You only"

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Wednesday, November 13, 2013

Worship song of the week

I have been busy writing about other things lately - and posting lots of videos with posts that I temporarily forgot about doing a worship song of the week this week - but as I was laying awake this morning I realized the perfect song for this week. This song has been my heart cry for the past couple of weeks as I've struggled with temptation, weakness and failure, as I've fallen on God's power and leaned into Him, and as I've reaped a harvest of blessings in obedience this song has been a sweet reminder through it all that in the highs and lows God I need you! 

P.S. the female backup on this song is Audrey Assad - I posted a song from her on this day

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Monday, November 11, 2013

NEW photography class!!

For the first time ever I am offering an in-person photography class!!! It has been a long time coming and I can not wait to get started. Each session will offer something for everyone with a special focus on learning how to use your Digital SLR camera.

Each week I will explain one principle of photography 
that you can apply to every picture you take 
no matter what kind of camera you have 
PLUS one feature of your DSLR camera 
to help you to make the move from auto 
to manual shooting mode. 
There will be a PDF tutorial for each week, 
two assignments 
and daily optional prompts. 
And my favorite part:
we'll get together at my house
 to go over the tutorial, 
answer any questions you might have 
and practice what we've learned. 

This is a something for everyone class - you don't have to have any experience or previous knowledge about your camera or photography to participate in this class but I've also added a couple of more challenging assignments for more photography savvy participants. 

Click here to read what previous students have said about my online classes.

I'm offering registration for two upcoming sessions: a November/December session to be held on Saturday mornings 10am-noon on November 16 & 23 and December 13 & 20 OR You can save a spot in my Friday morning session which will be held on Friday mornings January 17 through February 7. 

Registration is limited to 10 participants for each session! 
Registration fee is $20

REQUIRED: Click here to register
OPTIONAL:  Pay your registration fee online to reserve your spot!
You can also pay in person by cash or check.

which class?

P.S. Children are welcome - my kids will probably be there most weeks also Anjelica and her children will be hanging out with us especially to help out with any kid - but you'll probably get more out of the class if you can leave them at home. 

Answered prayers

This morning as I was going about my day I realized that today feels like a huge answer to years of prayer. I can not tell you how often I have prayed that God would direct my days and especially how I spend my time - only to spend how many days on what feels like nothing. 

Lately I have had growing clarity about the season I'm in right now. It's a quiet season - with not a lot going on, but it's been a powerful season. I have had growing convictions about how I will and won't spend my time and I have found as I have cleared my calander and taken one step of obedience after the next that God has blessed these days. From writing encouraging notes to friends (and writing on this blog!) to play dates with the same few people, cultivating relationships. Serving and giving. Being available. These are what makes the days feel glorious. 

I read this summer, in a book by Anne Morrow Lindbergh called "Gifts from the Sea" that women have no problem being "poured out" we will give and give and give - the problem is when we pour ourselves out and it feels like it's all going down the drain. Then it's easy to get discouraged.

I relate so strongly to that. I pour myself out over and over but so many days it feels like I pour myself out and it goes right down the drain. I give and give and give to empty, life - sucking nothingness. A pursuit of money or attention, seeking comfort and my own happiness over everything else. Or just good old-fashioned distraction.

Sometimes this is only feeling or a perception about something that is, in reality, hugely important - like the early years of my kids lives - it feels a lot like nothing, but in reality it is a lot of small things adding up to the formation of character, which is huge. 

This moment, right here - this Ebenezer, this "God has brought me this far and I will praise him!" moment. I want to take this moment, share it with you and encourage you - wherever you are, whatever you are praying for that God is a God who answers prayer. Not always in the way we had hoped, rarely in the time we thought he should but prayer is ALWAYS answered. 

So here in this moment of clarity I want to testify that God is faithful! He is good. He answers prayer. 

Friday, November 8, 2013

Weakness, vulnerability & influence

This week has been hard.

I won't say awful because there were some amazing moments, and I won't say horrible because even though I've had headaches all week and those were horrible it wasn't that either, 
I'll just say it's been hard. 
Physically hard, emotionally all over the place, a spiritual struggle. 

Today I posted on Instagram about my struggle, and it started me thinking about the conversations I've had with a lot of different women throughout this week who are going through their own, unique week of hard. Over and over again I've talked to other moms who are struggling with one thing or another. All of us are exhausted. Physically & emotionally maxed out.

So I was driving around this morning, running my errands, and I was thinking about the importance of showing our mess. It's the opposite of what feels natural - I want other people to see me as someone who has it all together but I need people to see me as someone who struggles, just like we all do. I need to be a part of a community of women who are not afraid of allowing others into our mess. Whatever that is.

As someone who is a small group co-leader and has a little influence and especially as a mom who has older kids I need to be willing to show other people, especially younger moms, that I don't have it all together, that I have bad days. Not just as a pat on the shoulder or as a strategy to appear more approachable but as a living breathing walking around example that yes - I'm a mess, just like you. I have bad days, just like you. I struggle with my kids and get mad at my husband - but we're going to be okay. 

Here is the thing I find the most challenging about the idea of letting other people see my mess: it is not going to just happen. I have to live this way on purpose I have to let my guard down and talk about the things that make me feel uncomfortable and vulnerable and that takes a lot of intentionality.

It also takes grace. Because we've all been around the negative nelly who has no problem talking about everything that's going wrong in her life - we desperately don't want to be her but we aren't doing much better if we put on the plastic face of everything is fine and nothing is ever wrong in my world and heavens no I never struggle with that. Let's be real. Yes, I do. 

I want to be the kind of friend who is honest about struggle, but isn't defined by it. I want to be the kind of friend who is real, even if that means admitting the thing that I don't want to even admit to myself. I want to be the kind of person who is speaks truth but also speaks grace, even if it means letting go of my insane desire for everyone to like everything I do all the time. 

It's a lot about taking off "the church face" mask, it's a lot about not just saying "I need grace" in some type of abstract way but knowing, deeply, truly, desperately I NEED grace!!! Just like we all do.

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